How One Act of Kindness Changed Everything
For Catherine Conteh, a moment from the birth of her daughter still plays over and over in her mind 30 years later. She had been lying in her hospital bed in Sierra Leone, in labor, writhing in untreated pain, for four days straight. The doctors told her that due to complications with her labor, she needed a Caesarean section surgery — one that 18-year-old Catherine and her husband, Augustine, couldn’t afford. Without payment upfront, she would not be given the surgery.
Decades later, she remembers the thought that ran on a loop amid the pain and fear.
“I will lose my life. If nothing happens, I will lose my life. That kept on playing right in my heart, in my mind.”
Catherine and Augustine had been so excited to have their first baby, despite their tight finances and the tumultuous state of their country. Her birth was supposed to signify the start of something new and hopeful. But as the hours and days passed, the gravity of Catherine’s situation set in. The baby they’d longed for likely wouldn’t survive — and neither would she.
“Within those four days, my excitement about having my baby, meeting my baby, was fading away slowly, slowly, slowly. What my whole being was focusing on was the pain. When is this pain going to stop?”
By day four, Catherine felt all the strength fading from her body. From a crack in the hospital curtain, she saw a body, covered head to toe, being wheeled out on a stretcher. She wondered, “Am I going to be the next person?”
Catherine drifted to sleep. When she woke up, it was to the sight of a foreigner by her bedside, stroking her hair, asking her name.
A Helping Hand
The visitor was Aly Hall, a nurse from New Zealand who was volunteering on board the first Mercy Ship, the Anastasis, then docked in Freetown. Aly and a few other volunteers, including Dr. Keith Thomson, were on a tour of the maternity ward in the local hospital when they heard Catherine’s cries.
“With Catherine being in labor for days, the nurse told me that she would die, and the baby would die. It was communicated in a very matter-of-fact way, which shocked me — that this was going to be the outcome without any intervention. I’d never encountered anything like that,” shared Aly. “It was upsetting to think that $100 or so could save the life of her and her baby. That’s all it would take.”
Dr. Thomson joined Aly in the room to hear Catherine’s story and immediately offered to pay for the surgery.
The next thing Catherine remembers is a hospital nurse telling her: “These strangers who came in are going to pay. So, we’re just waiting for the doctor to come in, and then we can start the process.”
Miraculously, both Catherine and her daughter, Regina, were safe and healthy after the operation. While recovering in the hospital ward, the new mother finally experienced the moment she’d feared wouldn’t happen: meeting her baby girl.
“It was quite a happy moment for me because I was really looking forward to seeing my own baby,” she said. “And my husband was just over the moon.”
Aly and another Mercy Ships volunteer, Gina Willig, visited Catherine often in the days that followed, bringing medicine and prayers. Quickly, the strangers became like sisters.
“I call [Aly] sister, and she calls me sister,” laughed Catherine. “Because it takes a pure heart and someone with pure love, meeting someone and instantly loving them unconditionally.”
A New Chapter
Eventually, Catherine recovered and went home to start a new chapter of life with her family. After a few years Dr. Thomson was able to help Catherine again by helping her family receive asylum in Australia due to the growing conflict in Sierra Leone.
Once there, Catherine decided to become a nurse, just like Aly. Her daughter, Regina grew up to follow the same path. And in a beautiful full circle moment, at the age of 18, Regina returned to the country where she was born to volunteer as a nurse on board a Mercy Ship.
One day, Catherine got an unexpected call from Dr. Thomson. He’d gotten ahold of Aly’s contact information and asked Catherine if she’d like to reconnect.
“Hearing her voice again, after almost three decades, was a bit emotional for me,” she said. “My hope for Aly and me is to see [each other] give that sisterly hug. And get to praise God together.”
When she looks back on that day, Catherine believes it all comes down to one simple choice. The choice to save a life. The choice to give life. And that choice has manifested in incredible ways over the years.
“I’ve learned from that one kind choice to help a stranger… a whole family is saved,” Catherine shared. “Because [Dr. Thomson] said yes, to the Lord. He saved my life. He saved my daughter’s life… Help where you can help because you never know how that little, kind gesture you’re doing will fold out to be.”
It was a simple act of kindness that saved not just one life but two — and changed the trajectory of a family’s future for good. Decades later, the ripple effects of that moment continue to play out in Catherine’s life and beyond.
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